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About 18u
Read more about who we are and what we do, and also find out how we can help and support you if you have been abused in any way.
VIP Programme

The award winning VIP (Violence Is Preventable) Programme has been running in schools all over the UK and has even branched out worldwide.

Read more about it here.

 

     
 
What counts as abuse?

Here is a list of some of the things which count as abuse:

  • Witnessing your mum being beaten up by her partner
  • Someone flashing at you or making you touch them
  • If your mum/dad hits you all the time
  • Being constantly told you are worthless
  • Being raped
  • Being neglected
  • Sex talk or comments that make you feel bad
  • Being left alone in the house for long periods of time (e.g. days)


None of these may have happened to you but you still may have been abused. Think of it this way, if someone has done something to you that feels wrong or bad, you have been abused. Remember you have the right to feel safe.


   
Who can abuse?
Most abusers are not two headed monsters, nor are they strangers. Anyone who has more power than you can be an abuser.

Sometimes abusers are really nice people that you know and trust.

Young people can be abused by anyone such as family, babysitters, relatives or neighbours, and many young people are abused by their boy/girlfriends.

Most abuse happens at home or in the home of the abuser and often you can be too afraid to tell anyone what is happening. Even if you do want to tell, you may not know who to trust, or you may feel that you won’t be believed.

It is important to remember that you belong to you, and no one has the right to do anything to you that you don’t want. If someone touches you, hits you or makes you unhappy then it is abuse. It is their fault not yours.

 
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